[Vulnerability & Power - VI]
If I’m seen, as in light from my figure passes through your cornea, iris, retina, and optical nerve, and your brain processes the image as a human being, I am viewed in a literal sense. My form has boundaries and limits. To see me is to see this form.
If I’m seen in a deeper way, you may see me as a physical form, but you also “see" me as an emotionally complex being that both holds physical space and sentient experiences. My experiences are infinitely complex. To see me in this way is to affirm that this universe of emotional complexity makes sense.
Belonging requires being seen in a deeper way. It’s required to experience meaningful participation in a community, loving relationships, mutual and shared need, and social value.
But it’s also exposing. Always.
This is the paradox of being seen as more than a physical form, automaton, or mindless servant that fills finite space. Exposure and connection coexist. So do risk and belonging. And vulnerability and the power of community.
True power requires being truly seen. There’s no workaround or hack or shortcut.
